Monday, May 21, 2012

It's all in the "View"!

Everyone who knows me is aware of my great love of Rotary!  I have been a Rotary member since April 1994, and I have witnessed first hand the good that this organization does in the community, in our state, and around the world.  Not only have I had the opportunity to serve my club, the Putnam, CT club as a past president, I am also very privaleged to serve the district as the assistant governor for area 5.

This past weekend was a great celebration in the form of the Annual Rotary District 7890 Conference that was held this year in Plymouth, MA.  Dear friends Gary and Karen Osbrey worked tirelessly all year planning for this big event!  There were checklists for everything, several trips to Plymouth during the year to make sure all the details were right, and finally spending the entire time at the conference working on the schedule each and every minute.  And the hard work paid off with one of the best conferences ever!  It was the first year that I convinced my husband to join me, and he such a great time that I don't think I'll have trouble convincing him to join me in the future!

On Saturday morning, after enjoying an evening feast dining on 16th century fare at the Plimouth Plantation, I woke early.  George was still asleep so I decided that I was going to go for a brisk morning walk.  I got into my gym clothes and sneakers, grabbed my ipod, and headed out the door.  The morning was magnificant - sunny with a cool breeze off the water of the bay!  I headed out towards the bay and found a walk/bike path that parallelled the beach and water.  As my ipod played upbeat walking music, I began to jog.  Now you need to know that I have not jogged in years!!  It is always such a chore to jog on the treadmill and if I do it is only for two minute intervals.  Here I was maintaining a slow jog without feeling that same exhaustion!  How can that be?

I think it might be the "view"!  I was focused on the beauty of the water, the lovely homes along the waterfront, the people walking dogs or biking along the path.  I forgot to get involved in all that self talk about how horrible it is to jog!   When I returned to my room, my fitbit registered 3.22 miles!  Not a huge jog/walk, but not bad either!  After the morning Plenary session at the conference, we had the whole afternoon to ourselves, so George and I went out and enjoyed Plymouth!  We walked over five miles seeing the "rock", touring the Mayflower II, doing some shopping, walking along the river in the park, and breathing in the fresh air and sunshine!! 

Saturday was the most active day ever recorded on my fitbit, and it didn't feel like it at all!  I believe that it is because I was enjoying the view and finding a way to make a healthy activity less of a chore and more of an adventure!  Now if only I could have that beach scene at my gym...........hmmmm.

Saturday, May 5, 2012

Patience is a Virtue

When I left work after 4:30 on Thursday, I was completely spent.  I had a full day at the college and was ready to go home, greet my hubby, and then meet our daughter Kristen in Putnam for dinner.

There was a huge construction project on Route 101- they were chopping up the road to resurface as far as the eye could see.  Traffic was one lane only and my side had been stopped, but all I could see was a long stretch of lane with the other filled with trucks, bobcats, and equipment.  It was at least ten minutes (maybe five but it felt like ten)  before I could see cars coming down the lane in the other direction.  It took another few minutes for those vehicles (I counted 28) to pass us and for our line to begin moving along.

I was the second car in line.  As the cars piled up behind me, I began to feel impatient. I began to think, "What the heck are these workers doing still here at a time when people are trying to get home from work?".  Then I looked behind.  Some people were beginning to do three point turns to go back and find another route.  Others were poking their heads out of the windows, or making gestures.   I guess that as a society we are very impatient people. When we get impatient, we want to turn around and find an easier way because "waiting" is hard.  As annoyed as I was, I just sat and waited!!

How does this relate to the Follow the Fifty Journey?  Well, I believe that one of our worst enemies is impatience.  We want to get healthy; we want to lose weight; we want our blood pressure to go down, or our blood sugars to be normal, ect..  We start off like I did when I left the college on Thurday afternoon - ready to get to our destinations and relax.  The last thing we want is to be stopped in traffic, or have and obstacle put in our way!  We have to learn to be patient.  Our bad health habits did not happen overnight, and they won't go away any quicker.  It is a process.  We have to wait out the bad parts, be persistent, and then continue on our way.

Those people who decided to turn around and not wait out the traffic line probably took longer to get to their destination than if they had sat out the time in line.  They may have decided not to go to the destination that they intended and sought out a different place.  We do this to ourselves all the time.  We turn around and look for something easier.  We backtrack.  We lose patience.

I hope that my FTF sisters can keep in line, heading for their destinations, and be patient when they hit "constuction", so that we will all arrive at our goal in December together!

Tuesday, May 1, 2012

Divine women, divine intervention!

I can't even begin to express in words the magic that happened in the Tourtellotte Memorial High School building in Thompson last night.  One hundred seventy one women, members of the FTF sisterhood, gathered for the program "Fitness at any Age" sponsored by TEEG.  To see the sea of red and white shirts filling the auditorium was so inspiring and uplifting.  There was an hour of time before the program to connect with old friends and new friends and talk about how we were doing, what we were doing, and inviting each other to join walks and other activities. 

The speakers, were incredible, talking about exercise and movement.   The activity was fun (although I did take an aleve before I went to bed LOL), and the information sheets, stress ball, and exercise bands will prove useful over the next few months.  At the end of the evening, that ran almost an hour beyond its original schedule - and hardly anyone left - we had the beautiful, energetic, and inspiring Linda Collangelo share her excitement in ways that only Linda can deliver!  It was a night of  laughing, leaping, and learning!

I couldn't believe that I won two of the raffle prizes!  I NEVER win raffles!  One of the prizes was a $25.00 gift certificate to my gym.  Amy Williams was one of the speakers (she was incredible by the way) and she works for Midtown Fitness as a personal trainer and instructor.  She congratulated me and asked me if I needed directions to the gym.  Funny lady.  But that was when the idea struck me!  I am going to use this $25.00 gift certificate to help pay for three sessions with Amy at the gym.  I did this five years ago when I first joined, but honestly didn't make the most of it.  Now is the time.  As I have lost weight I have noticed that (how to put this delicately) I have more skin than body and I am hoping that I can tighten some of it up!  I am sure Amy will put me on an intensive program to do that!

I am a believer that things happen for a reason.  I think that the raffle prize was really a gift from above to inspire and challenge me to do new things.  I'll let  you know how it goes!

Sunday, April 29, 2012

Have "FITBIT" will travel!

As I have stated, my daughter Kristen is my FTF coach but my husband George is my biggest cheerleader!  He surprised me a little over a week ago with a little contraption called a Fitbit.  The Fitbit is a very small clip that electronically records your fitness goals each day and then wirelessly reports them back to your computer!  Men and women can clip it onto their slacks, a pant or shirt pocket, and women can (as recommended by the manufacturer) clip it to a bra.

The fitbit tells you the time, serves as a stopwatch, measures your sleep/wake patterns, tells you how many steps you climb, the number of steps that you take, the total number of miles you walk each day, and the number of calories that you are burning.  The fitbit summarizes your daily activity; it resets itself at midnight each day.  When I log into the fitbit "dashboard" on the computer, I can also graph my progress, add weight and fitness activities, and use their food log.  I can also set goals and it will measure how well I do each week towards achieving them.   It is a pretty amazing piece of technology that is no bigger than my pinkie.  (For more information go to www.fitbit.com )

So where I go, my fitbit goes, and it has been pretty amazing.  After my first week, I logged into the dashboard to see the results:  Steps:  56,298 (Goal 70,000 per week so I made 80%);  Stairs:  74 floors climbed ( 106% of my goal of 70); Miles:  26.83 miles (Goal of 35 miles per week- I accomplished 77%).  I burned between 1750 and 2300 calories per day.  And I lost 1.2 pounds.  Not a bad first week!

There is a saying that a journey of a thousand miles begins with one step.  Now that I have this amazing gadget, I know exactly how many steps I am making towards my heart health journey!!!!  Thanks, George! 

Friday, April 27, 2012

Week Four or "How much can one person fit into seven days?".

It is 8:20 p.m. on Friday night.  I am sitting at my keyboard with a decaf tea wondering how to summarize the past week.  Like last week, I knew that this one would be filled with many obligations and more that a little stress.  And like last week, I survived with a little help from my friends!!

Last weekend was pretty pleasant.  I started with a two mile walk with my teammate Sue and her daughter/coach Rachel.  We walked around Roseland Park on a spectacular spring day, passing people with children in the park, kids riding bikes, couples walking along the lake, and parents watching their sons and daughters playing little league and t-ball.  I could have easily walked another two miles, but both Sue and I had other obligations.  I did some more gardening and did up a sketch of the addition to our back deck for George to bring to the town hall for a building permit.  Sunday brought some showers, and then rain.  I spent time with my beautiful daughter- and coach - Kristen.  We saw Linda Collangelo and Laura Crosetti at the 99 Restaurant and I was reminded of the incredible sisterhood that has been formed in Northeaster CT!  I had the salmon with roasted veggies for lunch!  I relaxed in the evening with my hubby!  It was all good!

Monday I hit the floor running at 4:45 a.m.  After a trip to the gym  I began a week of non-stop activity.  After a long workday, I had a meeting of my committee for the Arc Capital campaign and a walk through at the banquet facility we are using.  Started Tuesday at the gym and at the college I made final preparations with vendors and the college facilities folks for our two day "Open Air Fair" at the college;  the Open Air Fair began on Wednesday along with SGA elections (and all the crazy stuff around that).  I not only vompleted a good workout at the gym, but I also had physical therapy for my shoulder in the afternoon.   No gym on Thursday morning as I attended the Rotary District Assembly in West Springfield beginning at 7:30 a.m..  I left Springfield at noon, travelled back to the college, wrapped up the "Open Air Fair" at the college in the afternoon, and then headed for the Kick off for the Community phase of the ARC Capital Campaign that same evening.  Missed the gym again Friday because I was up at the crack of dawn to get to WINY radio for 7 as part of the Anti-Drinking and Driving campaign for NECASA.  The Putnam Police and EMS personnel turned a car on its roof in front of the station and we put NECASA Executive Director, Bob Brex inside where he would stay until we raised money for programming to be provided to teens during prom season.  I left WINY after doing some air time and spent the remainder of Friday at Rentschler Field in East Hartford where the "Heroes for Hire" job and training fair was held for CT veterans!  It was crazy and tiring, but now that it is over I realize it was also filled with accomplishment and purpose!

I usually get so caught up in the craziness of weeks that are busy like this that I forget to take care of myself.  Not so long ago I would be catching meals on the run, or eating whatever was available just because it was there - or convenient.  I've always been a stress eater, and a week like this should have put me over the edge.  It didn't!  Why?

The answer, I believe, is because one of the things that I added to my busy lifestyle is a huge commitment to myself.  Why is it, as women, we usually take care of everything and everyone but don't put ourselves on that top priority list?  What changed is that there are 180 plus women who have made themselves and each other a priority for the next few months.  In order to take care of them and cheer them on, I have to take care of myself.  It is a commitment and promise that we made to each other, and I  keep promises and commitments. 

So, to the models, their coaches, my teammates, my coach, and my cheerleaders - and all the beautiful women of the Follow the Fifty movement - thank you!  I had a lot to fit into seven days this week...  but left room to take care of myself as well! 

Saturday, April 21, 2012

The Week from Purgatory

I knew going into the work week that it was going to be a challenge to maintain my composure and optomism. My calendar was full of both personal and work related activities.

I knew on Monday morning that I was going to be behind the 8 ball each and every day. I was feeling the stress before I had started.  Luckily, I did start off the day on Monday at the gym.  I felt energy when I left and thought I could face the day with ease.  Unfortunately as the morning wore on it was apparent that my fears were to be realized.  Each day became more stressful as demands increased and I began to feel like I was falling behind!  I did go to the gym every morning except Thursday (I did a radio spot at 7:30 that morning for the Arc Capital Campaign).  A couple of mornings required a serious self pep talk to get out of bed.    I worked late each evening and had meetings each night.  By Friday I was dragging.  It was the week from Purgatory!!  But I got through it.

During the kick off for Follow the Fifty, one of the stations that we visited demonstrated breathing and relaxation techniques as well as another that demonstrated yoga.  I am sure that I forgot many things, but I do remember the relaxation breathing that was part of both stations.  I did find myself practicing this a little and I must admit it helped. 

Friday morning's gym routine was the most intense workout yet.  I found myself amazed that I was able to finish it!!  After my aerobic routine I always do a few situps and some stretches.  I use a exercise ball for sit ups because of my back problem.  I have a "gym buddy" that I met five years ago and have come to enjoy as I do my routine.  We both arrive at the gym a few minutes before it opens at 5:30 a.m. and begin our workouts at the same time.  We usually talk while on the elliptical and bike, and we do our stretches afterwards.  While I was doing my situps, he commented on how many and how quickly I had done them.  When I started in January adding the situps, I would do a set of ten.  Now I do two sets of fifty.  Its funny but I never realized how much stronger I had gotten!  I was thinking..."o.k.  I am going to really get a lot accomplished at work today". 

Well it didn't turn out that way and when I left the office at 5:00, I left behind a stack of work that will face me on Monday.  I needed to get to the home of a fellow board member of the Arc to prepare for a home social that is part of our Capital Campaign.  I'm glad a got there a little early because I helped cut up veggies and arrange cheeses, breads, and fruit on platters. 

By the time the guests arrived everything was done and I began to relax.  After an hour or so, I spoke to the guests about the importance of the Arc to me.  I felt this great surge of pride and purpose.  I also felt the stress of the week begin to slip away.   I remember a quote (although i can't remember who was quoted) that said,"the most effective exercise for your heart is bending down and lifting someone up".  That pretty much summarizes the experience.  My heart felt wonderful as I worked to help an organization that I felt passionate about.  And looking a the face of one of the other presenters, Keith, who is a remarkable friend who was born with downs syndrome, I knew that I had done a good job!!
So I survived the week from purgatory!  I guess it is because I am pointed towards heart heaven!!

How my flower bed reflected my blossoming health

Week three of Follow the Fifty began in a very positive fashion.  With a rare burst of energy I took advantage of a beautiful spring day and began to work on my flower beds.  I'm embarrassed to say that I never so much as pulled a weed last year and they were a mess!  I have five areas in my yard with perrenials, and looking at the whole thing made my heart sink.  I felt overwhelmed!  How could I possibly clean up this mess and where do I start?  I decided to tackle one area and not focus on them all.  I began in the smaller bed on the side of the deck to our kitchen door.  This is the garden that I see most as I enter and exit the house.

There is something about playing in the dirt that is very therapeutic.  As I started tilling and pulling at weeds, I felt happy and ethusiastic.  I thinned out the lilies, and pruned my large perrenial plants.  I cut limbs off my lilac bush and ran an edger all around the perimeter to give it a fresh and clean line.  It took a little less than two hours, and when I was done it looked better than it had....well ....ever!  I was tired and glad that I had decided to only do one garden.  I had a lot more to do in the coming weeks, but this one was done!

After I took a shower and made a cup of peppermint tea,  I started to think about what I would blog.  While pondering on how my gardening activity  related to a heart health journey, I was struck by the metaphor of cleaning up the gardens.  Like my gardens, my health had been ignored and neglected.  It was no wonder that I was a mess when I started in October.  Fortunately for me, Dr. Monet and my nutritionist Kristen broke down what I needed to do in steps and stages.  Like pulling the weeds and tilling the soil, I had to remove the things that were toxic in my body.  Weeding and getting to the rich dirt underneath a garden bed is my least favorite job - detoxing was equally painful.  But in both cases it needed to be done to get to the rich dirt beneath.  Pruning, cutting, and edging result in a neater, more attractive area.  By trimming away the foods that had been the cause of ill health, I found a more attractive me!!

I still have four garden areas to work on in my yard, and I still have a lot of work to do to get to my ultimate goal of health.  I am confident that when I finish up, I will be very pleased with the results.